Choices

Well an observer of life and others I have become. I have a bunch of great and wonderful friends. Some I love dearly, Some that Drive me Crazy and Others Well they are still good people. I don't understand how or why we all decide that we are going to treat each other the way we do. We meet each other and we decide that we are going to form a friendship either out of a shared friendships or common interests. But for whatever reason we all do come together at some point. In the time that we are friends we will Laugh, Cry or Scream with one another. We will Hate, Avoid or Fall in Love with one of our Friends. "Life is what happens to you while your busy making other plans". (John Lennon) We can't help how things will turn out or how others see us. All we can do is be ourselves and do the best we can to communicate with one another. Being honest with ourselves is harder than being honest with others. Friends are the people we depend on. They are the ones that we share our deepest fears and secrets with. Sometimes they are more to us then we let them know. Friends are the basic building blocks of that relationship we all hope to find someday.

When we meet someone and we get to know them there is always a choice to be made. To just move on and leave things as they are, To make a new friend or to show interest and pursue someone as a potential love. Some times we make one choice and then it becomes another. But what happens when you decide you want to pursue a romantic interest but you don't want to lose the friendship. Scary isn't it? The choices we find ourselves having to make for excitement, love and out of safety. Whatever shall we do?

Well in this life there are very few things we are sure of but there are somethings that are consistent either for the good or the bad. But consistent none the less. Consistency shows how a situation or a person is and how it's going to be. Its just up to us to open our eyes and see what the potential is.

We must throw off our fears, open our eyes, take a step on to the road and pray to god we don't get our ass run over. In the end we shall all find happiness but we have to show faith in something greater than ourselves and sometimes it hides in the strangest places. All of you that are my friends know how I see myself. You all know how I view my life. But here I am trying like hell to play the Frogger the Reality Game and I'm always getting my green little ass splattered but here I am continuing to try. So with that said value your friends and take a real good look cause your hearts desire may have been the one holding your hair when you puke, your hand when you cry or the one who puts themselves to the side for your happiness. Be good to one another people. Be the best friend you can be and always be open to more.