Fear

Why are we so afraid of relationships? We run and hide from them or we adopt the attitude of I had better get them before they get me. It has come to the point in allot of us were we ask ourselves is there such a thing as real love or is everyone just out to screw us. Fear is born from this and so many of us give into that fear. Sad isn't it?

Things get tough but do we have the moral fiber to tough it out and say I love you and this is what is right? No we say I'm depressed and it's because of this and that and we run. We turn our backs on the ones that count on us and depend on us. We refuse to listen to the cries and the pleading that is done. We give deaf ears to those we promise to love forever. Why is it that we all seem to take the easy road and just walk away?

So many people scream about family values but I don't see any. So many hide behind "I'm a Christian" but yet the things we do are so wrong. How the hell can we expect others to take us seriously when we act like children and take our toys and go home? I have met some amazing women but I have noticed that so many are afraid because someone couldn't hold on to what they wanted in the beginning.

How can someone just love you one day and then be gone the next? How can they promise forever and say " I love you"? I may be wrong but I thought forever or eternity was the time it took for a dove to carry one grain of sand from all the beaches on earth to the farthest planet in the galaxy until all the sand was gone and then bring it back again. Guess that is a myth.

Forever must be allot shorter then that cause it just doesn't last. So many of us are left behind trying to figure out the number of the bus that hit us. We become so afraid of love that we run from it or we question it. Some of us bury ourselves in day to day just so we don't have to face it or we get mad when someone points out the damage we have caused.

What has this world become? Why do we treat each other the way we do. Life could end tomorrow folks. It's too short and too precious to spend cowering away in fear. Sometimes you just step up and say "Thank God I'm alive and I'm going to claim whats mine. I'm going to fight for whats right and do the best I can even if it isn't easy". Can we do that? Can we make it back to the world we used to have where people stood by each other? Good questions I think but I never see those on a survey.